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Esther and Pride

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“Pride comes before a fall” (Prov 16:8), and you won’t find many better illustrations of that than Haman’s humiliation in Esther 6. He went from thinking he was about to be treated like a king, to having to treat his most despised enemy like one.

We tend to assume that pride is all about thinking you are the greatest. A proud person has an overly inflated opinion of themselves. But pride is not only manifest in delusions of grandeur. Pride also lies behind idle daydreams where we imagine ourselves performing heroics or receiving plaudits.

Most of us know we will never be celebrities or sporting heroes or political leaders or billionaire business owners, but it doesn’t stop us dreaming. Our fantasies reveal a deep-seated longing to be first. Haman’s description of how he wanted to be honoured (Esth 6:7-9) revealed his own fantasy of being the king, dressed in royal robes, and being exalted in front of everyone.

Even at our most godly moments, as we minister in church, we can succumb to a similar type of pride. We are so often approval addicts, longing to have our egos stroked by people telling us that what we have done is brilliant. And if they don’t then we resort to fishing for compliments.

There is of course, nothing wrong with desiring to bless people with our gifts. And neither is it wrong to be pleased when we receive positive feedback. But beware the insidious nature of pride. It catches us out when we are most sure we are free from it. It has the potential to undermine even the most noble of deeds, as our initial motivation of love turns into selfish ambition. As Paul points out in 1 Cor 13:4-5, love is not proud, nor is it self-seeking. The loving person dreams not about how he can be honoured, but how he can bless others.

Not to us, O LORD, not to us but to your name be the glory, (Ps 115:1)

Esther and Providence

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Most commentators agree that if Esther teaches any kind of theological “lesson” at all, it is the doctrine of providence. Providence is the term used to describe the way that God orchestrates the seemingly random events of life to fulfil his wider purposes.

The clearest example can be found in Esther 6:1-6. It is the turning point of the book, yet strangely enough, neither Esther nor Mordecai, the book’s “heroes”, do anything in this section. Maybe God is the hero after all in this book that never even mentions him.

At just the right time the king had a sleepless night. He happened to choose just the right thing to do – request that the chronicles be read to him. They happened to read from just the right place – the story of Mordecai. Despite trying to fall asleep, Xerxes happened to be paying attention at just the right moment. He happened to ask just the right question – had Mordecai been rewarded? Haman then happened to show up at just the right time – too late to realise that it was Mordecai who was in line for being honoured. And Xerxes’ question was phrased in just the right way for Haman to misinterpret it.

None of these things were “miracles” in the sense of being scientifically impossible. On their own, there was nothing surprising about them. But in combination, they were highly improbable. An incredible string of “coincidences” combined to reverse the respective fortunes of Haman and Mordecai.

What does this mean for our own lives? It means that we should be willing to look for God in the ordinary as well as the miraculous. Maybe your life has not been marked by dramatic interventions of God. But that does not mean that he is not working through the apparently ordinary. In fact, even in our disappointments (such as Mordecai being overlooked for reward, or Esther having to join the harem), God may be positioning us to be in just the right place at just the right time. Are we ready to believe that, like Esther, we have been placed in the circumstances we currently find ourselves in, not by chance, but by God, “for such a time as this?" (Esth 4:14)

New Wine 2010

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Just over a week ago we New Wine 2010 007camped at New Wine, a charismatic evangelical Bible week run mainly by Anglican churches with some help from Vineyard. The highlight for me was Simon Ponsonby’s morning Bible teaching series on the parables from Matt 13, although he abandoned the series to speak on John 22 (loving Jesus and knowing you are loved by him) and Joshua 3:5 (consecrating yourselves to the Lord) for the final two talks. His final talk in particular was very powerful, and it was great to finally get a chance to meet him in person during the week. His new book on holiness came during the week, although I still haven’t got round to reading "The Lamb Wins" yet, so it will be a little while before I provide a review.

With four children, getting to seminars is not easy, but we made at least one each day. We went to a couple of marriage seminars from Paul and Becky Harcourt which we enjoyed. There was an opportunity to renew your wedding vows at the end of the second one, which was a nice enough idea, but I got the giggles as our four year old continually interrupted with questions such as "what are you holding hands for"?

I also went to a two part seminar series entitled "homicidal God" by Simon Coupland, exploring the difficult issue of how we deal with the violence in the Old Testament. He drew from Chris Wright and Tom Wright, and he rejected a few possible ‘solutions’ and offered some ‘helpful thoughts’ on a topic that has no easy answers.

The most interesting seminar for me was one by Nick Drake on "Encountering God’s Presence in Sung Worship". He drew from some material in his fascinating masters’ thesis which is available to read online here. A quote that grabbed my attention is this one from Pete Ward in Selling Worship:

"As the mass is for Catholics, and the sermon is for Protestants, so the singing of songs is for Charismatics".

In other words, Catholics expect to encounter God’s presence in the bread and wine, Protestants in the preached word, but charismatics expect to experience God as they sing worship songs. I would have been interested in a discussion of whether these three need necessarily be mutually exclusive, but Nick took it in the direction of how our worship can be intimate while at the same time "accessible" to the outsider – two things that can be hard to hold together. All in all fascinating stuff, and maybe when I’ve finished working through Esther, I’ll post some more thoughts.

As for the evening talks, I only got to a couple since I was on babysitting duty, and had to listen to others on the radio. Maybe the quality of Terry Virgo’s recent messages at Together on a Mission have raised my expectations unrealistically high, but I didn’t feel any of the evening messages I heard really impacted me greatly. Worship in the main venue was led by Eoghan Heaslip, David Ruis and Nick Drake.

There was another venue (creatively named “venue 2”) featuring different worship leaders and main speakers, which most of the others from my church went to and seemed to greatly enjoy. It had slightly edgier worship, and a more contemporary feel, and proved very popular. Sadly the capacity of venue 2 is much smaller than venue 1 so those dropping off children first had no chance of getting in before it filled up.

As always, our children loved it. I am always moved by the loving and sacrificial work of the armies of kid’s workers who put on such excellent programs for them. And the greatest miracle of the week was the weather – no rain, not too hot, not too windy.

All in all it was another enjoyable year at New Wine (our seventh visit now), and apart from the disappointment of not being able to camp next to (or even close to) the friends we came with, we had a great time. Next up is Together at Westpoint.

Esther and Anger

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When we think about people who have an “anger” problem, we often think of people who lose their temper in dramatic fashion, going red in the face and hurling abuse at people. But even those who outwardly seem never to lose control can still struggle with anger, seething with rage privately while fantasising about the downfall of whoever upset us.

In Esther 5:9 we see Haman in high spirits. Everything is going well for him at this point in the story. Yet when Mordecai insults him by refusing to bow down, his mood completely changes. Now he is furious, and can think of nothing but how to destroy Mordecai.

Haman is an example of how easy it is to let a perceived wrong rob us of our joy and consume us with anger. Rather than simply overlooking and forgiving an offense, we dwell on it, which quickly leads us to an ungodly desire for revenge. Without suggesting that anger itself is a sin, James warns us that anger very often leads to sin:

Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires. James 1:19-20

Anger often reveals a self-idolatry. We are very quick to become indignant when other people treat us badly, while we expect them to be understanding and patient if we cause offence to them.

When we are angry, it is very hard for us to look objectively at the situation and acknowledge that we have no right to be angry. Jonah’s brutally honest response to God is a case in point:

But God said to Jonah, "Do you have a right to be angry about the vine?" "I do," he said (Jonah 4:9)

Even more ironic though, is the juxtaposition of Jonah 4:1,2. We are told that Jonah is angry. Why is he angry? Because he knows that God is “slow to anger”. He’s angry that God’s not angry!

But Jonah was greatly displeased and became angry. He prayed to the LORD, "O LORD, is this not what I said when I was still at home? That is why I was so quick to flee to Tarshish. I knew that you are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love, a God who relents from sending calamity. Jonah 4:1,2

Whether we are people who explode with anger or bottle it up, we need to recognise that being conformed more into the image of Christ means being people who are slow to anger. Be quick to overlook offences against you. Give others the benefit of the doubt. See things from their point of view. Forgive. Don’t let someone else’s mistake rob you of your joy.

Together at Westpoint

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Any of my readers going to Together at Westpoint this year (or accellerten as my kids insist on calling it)? Would be great to meet up with you if you are, especially as there is a disappointingly low turnout from my church this year. Comment on this post or send me an email.

It should be a good time, with David Stroud and Guy Miller speaking and Evan Rogers and Matt Giles leading worship.

Esther and Guidance

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The turning point of the book of Esther happens between the two feasts she invites Xerxes and Haman to. But how did Esther know that two feasts, rather than one would be appropriate? She could never have predicted what would happen in between. Why did she feel it necessary to refrain from making her request at the first banquet?

As they were drinking wine, the king again asked Esther, "Now what is your petition? It will be given you. And what is your request? Even up to half the kingdom, it will be granted." Esther replied, "My petition and my request is this: If the king regards me with favour and if it pleases the king to grant my petition and fulfil my request, let the king and Haman come tomorrow to the banquet I will prepare for them. Then I will answer the king’s question." (Esth 5:6-8 NIV)

I can think of three possibilities. First, she simply lost her nerve and used delaying tactics rather than coming out with the request. It would hardly be surprising as Xerxes was a volatile and unpredictable character. If this is the case, then we see an example of God’s providence at work, sovereignly orchestrating events according to his purpose. What appeared random was all part of the plan.

Second, maybe this is an example of great wisdom on the part of Esther. Maybe she discerned that the king was not yet in a place where he would be receptive to her request, and she needed to delay. Maybe Esther had been praying for wisdom, and this was the way in which God had answered her prayer.

Third, could it be that she was supernaturally led by the Spirit? Perhaps as she had been praying and fasting, God had spoken to her, indicating what she needed to do. This type of guidance is often criticised by non-charismatics since it is notoriously subjective. It certainly does need to be weighed and tested in the light of the Scriptures, but there is ample Biblical evidence that God is able to speak and guide through supernatural means such as visions, dreams and prophetic words.

We cannot know which of these was the case for Esther, but it is worth pointing out that God is able to guide us through our lives using a combination of these methods. Sometimes, the Spirit may prompt us directly to take a specific course of action, but in most instances, we simply have to make the wisest decision we can based on the information we have available to us and the principles of God Word. And at other times, in his grace, God works despite the decisions we make out of weakness, and uses them anyway for his glory.

Esther and Fasting

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We have already discussed the curious fact that the book of Esther does not mention God, nor anything explicitly religious. However, we are told that Esther, Mordecai, and the other Jews all fasted (Esth 4:3,16). Since we can be fairly confident that they were not simply trying to lose weight, we can assume that this fasting was accompanied by prayer for God’s deliverance. (Fasting was also associated with mourning someone’s death, but surely the Jews had not yet given up hope of being saved at this point).

As far as I am aware, there are no general commands to fast in the Bible (although it appears the Jews did have certain fasts they observed – e.g. Zech 8:19; Acts 27:9). There is no specified amount of fasting that ought to be done, or special dates on which you ought to fast. However, there are many calls to fast, especially in the Old Testament. These usually happen at times of national crisis, and as people fast together they express their desperation for God to act.

Fasting seems to be associated with devoting yourself to calling on God for a specific reason at a crucial time. John Piper interprets the meaning of fasting as expressing a deep hunger for God – as we fast we effectively say “I need you more than I need food”. He calls it a “homesickness for God”.

Jesus indicates that he anticipated that his followers would sometimes fast (Matt 6:16-18; 9:15), but does not specify when. I suspect that it is assumed that the pattern of leaders calling fasts would continue (e.g. Acts 13:2,3). Also, individuals or smaller groups will find on occasions that they feel the need to devote themselves to serious seeking after God in prayer at significant moments in their lives.

It is surely notable that in a book full of feasting, God’s people are found fasting at the point where humanly speaking, there seemed to be no hope. Whilst feasting is a great way to express our gratitude to God, fasting still has a place to express our utter dependence on him. If we find that we rarely or never fast, does that suggest a self-sufficiency on our part? Is it indicative of a lack of genuine hunger for God?

Esther and Fatalism

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It is often suggested that a belief in the absolute sovereignty of God can lead to fatalism. If God has already decided what will happen, why pray? If God has already decided who will be saved, why evangelise?

In Esth 4:14, Mordecai says, “if you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews from another place”. What does he mean? He seems to have faith that God will somehow bring about salvation for the Jews, and that even if Esther does nothing, God’s plan would not be thwarted. But notice that he doesn’t conclude that Esther therefore need do nothing. In fact, he concludes the opposite, and goes as far as warning her that she is in more danger by refusing to act than she would be if she did (see Esth 4:13-14).

Then in Esth 4:15, Mordecai utters perhaps the most famous phrase in the book: “who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this”. Assuming that Esther had not wanted to be part of the harem, this was not necessarily a comforting thought. She was effectively being told that God was behind all her own plans for her life being dashed. Yet I wonder if the story of Joseph was in Mordecai’s mind. Joseph was able to see that despite the evil intentions of his brothers, God’s sovereignty had positioned him to be in exactly the right place at the right time (Gen 50:20).

Esther agrees that she needs to take action and in Esth 4:16 she says “if I perish, I perish”. Again this should not be interpreted as a fatalistic “whatever will be will be” attitude. She knows that the future is hidden and she has no personal guarantee of safety. Yet she recognises that the safest place to be is in the will of God.

The story is told that a young William Carey was once told “Young man, sit down: when God pleases to covert the heathen, He will do it without your aid or mine”. Thankfully he knew better than to follow this hyper-calvinist advice, viewing God’s sovereignty as a reason to act, not as a reason to relax and take it easy.

Part of the resolution of this dilemma is the recognition that God has not only ordained what he wants to accomplish, but the means by which he will accomplish it. He intends to include us, to answer our prayers, to use our best efforts despite our weaknesses and mistakes. Faith in a sovereign God should propel us to action, knowing that when we are on his mission we are guaranteed to be part of something that will succeed. Passivity and fatalism dishonours God. Esther and Mordecai, on the other hand, display the kind of faith that is willing to step out and take risks in order to see God’s purposes accomplished.

Esther and Courage

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Sometimes it is disputed whether Esther or Mordecai should be seen as the “hero” of the book of Esther. They both get a roughly equal coverage. But for me, it is Esther who nudges ahead by having to do the most courageous thing in the book. She must risk her life by appearing uninvited before the king (Esth 4:11).

I guess if we’re honest, courage does not come naturally to most of us. We typically flee from danger, and avoid risky situations. Situations requiring courage fall into two broad categories. First, those from which we cannot escape, such as the person who has to go into hospital for an urgent operation. In such cases, what is needed is the peace that comes from knowing that God is with us (Ps 23:4).

But Esther had an opt-out. She could have buried her head in the sand. Haman had clearly not linked her to Mordecai. There was every chance she could escape with her life if she continued to keep her Jewish identity secret. The type of courage she needed was the courage to do the right thing and refuse to take the easy option.

Ultimately the secret to this type of courage is the fear of the Lord. This is brilliantly demonstrated by the example of two other courageous women, Shiphrah and Puah. They were the Hebrew midwives asked to terminate the lives of all baby boys. Pharaoh certainly had the power to execute them if they failed to comply. Yet they feared the Lord more than they feared Pharaoh (Ex 1:17).

We cannot fear the Lord if we fear man. Fearing what people will say about us or do to us can paralyse us into inaction. Desiring the approval of people will cause us to make moral compromises. True wisdom begins with fearing the Lord (Prov 9:10) – agreeing with him even if that puts us at odds with others. So the truly courageous person is not fearless, but one who fears God.

n.b. Courage is not portrayed in the Scriptures as an exclusively masculine characteristic. Peter picks Rachel as a role model for women in 1 Pet 3:6 precisely because of her courage. Esther too stands here as a shining example of a woman of faith – who had the courage to do what was right despite the personal danger it meant for her.

Esther and Mourning

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When Mordecai hears the dreadful news of Haman’s plans, he immediately starts mourning (Esth 4:1). However, when Esther hears the news of Mordecai’s mourning, her response is strange. Though she doesn’t know why Mordecai is mourning, she attempts to stop him, telling him to cheer up, and sends him a gift of new clothes (Esth 4:4). Her somewhat immature approach to her grieving father seems to be “get over it”.

Are there times when we are insensitive to those who are grieving? Where we effectively tell them to cheer up and get over it? Maybe a Christianised form of this is to tell them to be “full of the joy of the Lord”, which is a fully biblical exhortation but can be delivered in a very shallow way. I by no means consider myself an expert in grief counselling, but here are a few brief reflections on how we can genuinely help those who are mourning.

1. Listen

Possibly the best thing we can do for those who are mourning is to listen with a sympathetic ear. Esther gets round to this in Esth 4:5, where she hears the reason for Mordecai’s sackcloth and ashes.

2. Weep with them

Rom 12:15 calls on us to “mourn with those who mourn”. We are not to remain emotionally detached from one another, but to care deeply. This does not mean that we can never be joyful while another is sad, nor do we let ourselves become crushed by the weight of other people’s sorrow, but we are called to a sincere love that cannot be indifferent to the suffering of others.

3. Pray

In Esth 4:16 we see that Esther joins in the fasting. She recognises the need for God’s intervention. Prayer not only expresses our love for those we pray for, but causes it to grow. It is as we bring our brothers and sisters before God in prayer that we start to see them from his perspective.

4. Help practically

In this case, Esther was in a position where she was actually able to do something practical of use. We are often not able to fix the problem ourselves, but I suspect that in most cases there is at least something we can do of practical benefit, such as cooking a meal. This is another way we express our love for those who are weeping.

5. Encourage

We have already noted the shallowness of simply telling someone to cheer up, but that does not mean we should not seek to comfort them or raise their spirits. In particular, we need to remind one another of the future hope we have in Christ. Paul advises that we encourage those mourning the loss of a loved one in this way (see 1 Thess 4:13,17-18).

 

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 2 Cor 1:3-4 (NIV)